The 10 Weak Points Of A Narcissist Revealed

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Each one of us has our own weaknesses that hold us back in life; be it at work or in relationships. However, on a more positive note, most of us have the will to work on them and transform them. That being said, once narcissists are brought into the picture, the idea that they want to work on their weaknesses doesn’t exactly seem feasible. For a deeper understanding of these narcissists and more insights into the workings of their minds, discover their weak spots and which pointers they struggle with on a daily basis, yet aren't willing to admit or work on 👎.

The 10 Weak Points Of A Narcissist Revealed

The biggest weaknesses of a narcissist - 10 Traits that expose them

People with narcissistic tendencies may like to believe that they are invincible and have everything together, but that couldn’t be further from the truth. These individuals have frailties, and they all stem from their huge egos, need for control, and lack of confidence. Understanding their weaknesses can help you protect yourself and navigate relationships with these complex personalities.

What are a narcissist's weak points? Here are 10 of them 😱

Narcissists aren’t as perfect as they think. Below are 10 key weaknesses that expose their vulnerabilities:

1) Poor listening skills

The biggest weakness of a narcissist is their inability to listen. Narcissists love the sound of their own voice and rarely give others the chance to speak or share their thoughts. Their lack of willingness to listen, combined with their oppressive nature, makes it nearly impossible to open up to them. They simply don’t care enough to give others the time or attention they deserve.

2) They are unable to accept criticism

Criticizing a narcissist is a dangerous game. These individuals have a hard time accepting feedback because they believe they are perfect. Any form of criticism can trigger deep rage within them, as they see it as a direct attack on their inflated self-image.

3) They lack patience

A narcissistic personality is synonymous with impatience. Narcissists are demanding and believe they shouldn’t have to wait for anything. When they want something, they expect it immediately, and they become frustrated when others don’t meet their unrealistic expectations.

4) They lack focus

Narcissists are often obsessed with new ideas or goals, but their enthusiasm quickly fades. They are constantly seeking bigger and better things, which leads to poor concentration and scattered energy. This inability to focus prevents them from achieving long-term success.

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5) They are unable to understand other people’s feelings

A lack of empathy is one of the most defining traits of a narcissist. They are unable to comprehend or care about other people’s emotions, which makes them come across as cold and robotic. For them, only their feelings matter, and this will never change.

6) They are extremely stubborn

Narcissists are inflexible and refuse to change their minds, even when presented with evidence that contradicts their beliefs. Their grandiose self-image prevents them from admitting they are wrong, and they dismiss external input as irrelevant or inferior.

7) They are greedy

Success drives narcissists, and they will stop at nothing to achieve it. They are ruthless in their pursuit of power, often using manipulation, lies, and exploitation to climb to the top. Their greed blinds them to the consequences of their actions, both for themselves and others.

8) They are disingenuous

Narcissists are rarely sincere. They hide their true intentions behind a carefully constructed facade, using manipulation to fool others into believing their behavior is acceptable. Their lack of authenticity makes it difficult to trust them.

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9) They struggle with the truth

Dishonesty is a major weakness of narcissists. They lie to serve their ambitions and have no limits when it comes to bending the truth. Their lies often catch up with them, exposing their manipulative nature.

10) They demonstrate aggressive behavior

When narcissists feel like they are losing control, their ugliest traits emerge. They may become physically or verbally aggressive, lashing out at those around them. Despite their composed exterior, they are prone to losing their temper when they feel threatened.

Quick snapshot: Narcissist weaknesses vs. manifestations

WeaknessHow It ManifestsImpact on Others
Difficulty Accepting CriticismThey lash out when critiqued.Creates an unsafe or volatile relationship.
Lack of EmpathyDisregards the feelings of others.Leads to emotional neglect or resentment.
Lack of FocusFlits between projects and pursuits.Projects are left unfinished or poorly executed.

What destroys a Narcissist? - 3 Things that destabilize them 😨

Neutralizing a narcissist is no easy task, but certain actions can destabilize them and expose their vulnerabilities. Here are three strategies:

1) Saying no to them

Narcissists hate hearing the word "no." They believe their desires should always be met and struggle to accept differing opinions. By calmly and assertively saying no, you can disrupt their sense of control and force them to reevaluate their perception of you.

2) Telling them, "I’m not afraid of you"

Narcissists use fear and intimidation to dominate others. If you refuse to be intimidated and show that you’re not afraid of their threats, you take away their power over you. Let them get angry—it’s not your problem.

3) Letting them know the world doesn’t revolve around them

Narcissists believe they are the center of the universe. By prioritizing your own needs and showing them that their wishes aren’t your top priority, you can start to break free from their control.

>>> Read; 10 signs you are dating a narcissist

Editor’s Opinion - Even narcissists have weak spots

No one is perfect, and no one should claim to be either, including narcissists. Recognizing their weaknesses is the first step to protecting yourself and breaking free from their toxic influence. Remember, you have the power to prioritize your own happiness and well-being.

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My Mother is 100% Narcissist. I WAS her scapegoat child. I am in recovery. I don’t need to be that label anymore. I have been uncovering my true self. It’s so freeing when you can look at your family of origin and say…ohhhh…I get it now. Sick people hurt people. I am not sure what happened to my Mother to become this way. Maybe her Mom\Dad were Narcs. I don’t know. I do know that I am breaking free from the curse. It’s not mine to carry.

Stacey, 3 years ago

My heart goes out to you....the mother of my daughters is a narcissist and I worry about my oldest and she is only 8...I see how she is just an extension for their mom to meet her own needs ...we have 50/50 custody....I would like more but my girls would not understand and it also will hurt them...at times all I feel I can do is pray for my daughters...

John, 3 years ago

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