Wellbeing: In Great Shape

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We all have moments where we struggle with our body image and confidence. Your body is a superb machine and requires a little attention and maintenance to keep up with your hectic lifestyle. From nutrition, alternative medicine, sport and sleep routines, you will find here everything you need to reconcile yourself with your body.

Wellbeing: In Great Shape

Our body is a real temple but we forget it too often... Do you know that your heart beats between 60 and 100 times a minute? That you breathe 12 to 15 times a minute? Or that it takes 17 muscles to smile and 43 muscles to pout? And never a thank you! Worse, sometimes you don't like it anymore, you feel out of phase and it can go completely off the rails.

Here you'll find advice and secrets from our columnists to help you regain control, reconcile with your body and be in better shape.


'The human body is the best work of art'.

- Jess C. Scott


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What Causes Our Nightmares?

It's still dark when I open my eyes, and my heart is pounding out of my chest. In any case, phew, because I'm still alive and kicking. That man who was chasing me through that abandoned house wasnā€™t real, and I havenā€™t been chopped up into hundreds of little pieces. It was all just a bad dream... Like many people, I often have nightmares and have decided that I want to get to the bottom as to why. Letā€™s take a look together at what causes these disturbing dreams and traumatic events. šŸ˜±

Somniloquy: Why Do Some People Talk In Their Sleep?

ā€œYou know you told me your life story last night?ā€ Of course, telling your partner what youā€™ve been up to is pretty cool. Except if you do it in your sleepā€¦ Some people can talk in their sleep! So if you live on your own, no problem, but if you sleep with someone, it immediately becomes more annoying. Why do we talk in our sleep? Is it something that can disturb our sleep? What can we do to stop it?

Iā€™m Afraid To Go To The Gym

Working out is supposed to have a calming effect on us, but for me, the opposite is true! In fact, when I imagine myself going to the gym, I become awash with anxiety. The thought of squatting, doing weights, or even just running on the treadmill scares the life out of me, and unfortunately I know Iā€™m not the only woman to feel this way. Despite being fairly in shape thanks to my discovery of home workouts during lockdown, I just canā€™t muster up the courage to head to the gym, and hereā€™s why.

5 Good Reasons To Sleep Naked, For Your Body And Mind

I didnā€™t think about it, but sleeping naked is a topic ripe for debate. There are those for whom the question does not arise, those for whom pajamas are essential, and those who darenā€™t yet take the plunge: for fear of being cold, of being surprised during the night, or having trouble accepting their body. Whatever the obstacle, the good weather is on its way, and Iā€™m going to reveal to you the 5 advantages of leaving your pajamas in the wardrobe.

Lack Of Sport

For many years, I was pretty good at sports: I went to the gym several times a week, I ran, and I swam. Even though I never took pleasure from it, I was aware that I had to be active, especially being overweight. However, since I finished my studies, thereā€™s something Iā€™ve been lacking horribly in order to do sports: time! And this is the case for many adults, as 95% of the 18 to 65-year-olds donā€™t do enough sport.

Tips To Help You Fall In Love With Sport And Working Out

Thatā€™s it, itā€™s decided! I am going to take up a sport and stick to it this time round! If you've made this brave decision, congratulations, because once youā€™ve uttered those magic words, the hard part is overā€¦well almost! The blood, sweat and tears will still come afterwards. To give you the best chance of following through with your plan, you are going to have to follow some advice to help you achieve your aim and make a habit of working out. If you follow our advice, soon your body will be begging you to become more active.

What Are The 5 Narcolepsy Symptoms To Look Out For?

Sleep is one of the most essential functions for our bodies and minds because it gives us the rest necessary to recharge our batteries. Whilst many of us struggle to get enough shut-eye, drifting off isnā€™t a problem for everyone, and lots of people often find themselves snoozing throughout the day. Now, you have probably heard of narcolepsy before, but what does it actually mean? Well, itā€™s a disorder that causes uncontrollable and sudden sleep attacks and in certain cases can leave sufferers unable to move or speak. So, without further ado, letā€™s take a look at the symptoms related to this disorder before the Sandman makes a visit.

Iā€™m Afraid Of Sleeping Away From Home

Iā€™m going on vacation soon, Iā€™m really looking forward to it, but thereā€™s one small problem, Iā€™m unable to sleep outside my home. Between the fear of the dark and the fear of the unknown, far from my usual cocoon, my nights turn into a nightmare, without me even closing my eyes!

It's Official, Food Makes Us Feel Good And Here's Why

I have never been disappointed with a slice of Nutella on toast, it's always there during both bad and good times in my life. To me, food is a sort of emotional outlet, a pleasing solution to my problems. Even if Iā€™m not hungry, I canā€™t resist the urge to go and raid my cupboards to look for food. Is this due to my love for fine food and drink? Do certain foods act like a drug on me? Why does eating feel so good?

The 6 Effects Stress Has On My Skin

What with my eye bags that seem to get bigger by the day and my spots that remind me of my teenage years; stress has definitely had an impact on my skin. Looking at my face, I get the impression that itā€™s shouting 'stop'; especially when it comes to my relationship and work issues. Here's what happens to my body when the stress, worry and anxiety build up. After all, who doesn't want to look amazing 24/7?

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What Is The 80/20 Rule For Perfectionism?

Perfectionism is a paradoxical trait, and it's for that precise reason that it has ruined my life for such a long time. On paper, it may seem like a positive quality to have and implies meticulousness, however, in reality, it is closely linked to anxiety and can cause huge problems in our professional and personal lives. In my personal experience, my need for everything to be faultless meant I'd spend hours and hours working on projects and worrying that nothing was ever good enough. The truth is, by putting in so much extra effort, I was wasting my time and making myself ill, whilst neglecting other important tasks. I eventually realized that something needed to give, and that's where the 80/20 rule for perfectionism came in and saved the day!

Is It Possible To Change Your Habits In 21 Days?

Stop smoking, start meditating, get up earlier, etc. Personal development gurus promise to change our habits in a record time of 21 days. Are three short weeks really enough to change patterns that have sometimes been in place for years? We investigated for you.

The Perfect Morning Routine To Ease Anxiety

For the past 5 years, Iā€™ve suffered from crippling anxiety, which often spun out of control and left me feeling like a prisoner in my own body. My condition was so detrimental to my mental health, that it was at the root of my losing friendships, boyfriends, and even a job. Although, one day I suddenly decided that the invasive, irritating voice in my head needed to be silenced! Now, no one ever really recovers from anxiety, but the symptoms can be alleviated with a simple morning routine, for example.

5 Signs You Are Going Through A Work Burnout

Iā€™ve never made a secret of not being a huge fan of work, but my opinion on the matter certainly doesnā€™t make me immune to the chronic stress of a job burnout. Ever since the Covid-19 outbreak, Iā€™ve been working from home and have completely lost my work-life balance. Back when things were ā€˜normalā€™, I went into the office every day, did my time, left and didnā€™t think about the dayā€™s problems again, no matter how big they were. Now, things are totally different, and Iā€™m suffering from intense fatigue, insomnia, plus emotional and physical distress. What I want to get across is that anyone can experience burnout, which is why I want to share with you the symptoms to look out for and discuss what you can do to get better.

Survivorā€™s Syndrome

When a friend of mine died in an accident, I was devastated. I felt immense grief, but I wasnā€™t there to see the drama of her death. Some people unfortunately witness the death of a loved oneā€¦ This makes them feel a huge weight on them, as they feel guilty for being alive when the other person wasnā€™t as fortunate. This feeling, called ā€œsurvivorā€™s syndromeā€ (or Lazarus syndrome) isnā€™t trivial and can have many consequences. How can you overcome it? All will be explained.

What Are The Symptoms Of Depression?

Anger, sadness, melancholyā€¦ We all experience negative emotions, but when weā€™re depressed, we feel them more intensely. Suffering then gradually invades the person suffering from depression. Then it becomes so complicated to manage that it prevents the depressed person from living normally and fulfilling their social, family, and even professional obligations. How can we detect depression? What are the symptoms to alert us? Letā€™s explain.

What Do All Happy People Have In Common?

To find happiness, everyone seems to have their own recipe. For some itā€™s sport, for others itā€™s therapy. But happy people seem to all have something in common. Clearly, the universal recipe for happiness does exist. To be happy, we should imagine the future through the lens of our failures. This speaks to me, but it seems contradictory. And yet, the recipe for happiness is just one letter: The B in plan B promises you more optimism and fulfillment.

I Finally Understand What It Means To Succeed In Life

For years, I put incredible pressure on myself to ā€œsucceed in lifeā€. In my eyes, I had to be financially stable, be in the perfect relationship, have a certain number of followers on social media, have a nice house, be able to travel as I wished, etc. But actually I was wrong. Iā€™d never taken a step back and looked at this concept, but now Iā€™ve finally understood what it meant. Believe me, weā€™re all fooling ourselves!

How To Talk To Your Doctor About Depression?

Do you have no energy, trouble sleeping, no appetite and a feeling of apathy? Then you may be suffering from depression. You shouldnā€™t be alone in this distress. You need to talk about it, and as your general practitioner (GP) is often the first person you talk to, he or she will be able to make a diagnosis and suggest treatment. Yes, but how do you talk to your doctor about it? How do you put into words the unhappiness thatā€™s eating away at you?

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  1. Only LoveBen Howard
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  2. Invalid date
  3. Fix YouColdplay
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  4. Beautiful DayU2
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  5. Thinking out LoudEd Sheeran
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  6. White FlagDido
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  7. Lay Me DownSam Smith
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  8. Nine Million BicyclesKatie Melua
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  9. Put Your Records OnCorinne Bailey Rae
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  10. Summertime SadnessLana Del Rey
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  11. Imagine - Remastered 2010John Lennon
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  12. Shake It OutFlorence + The Machine
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  13. Space Oddity - Love You Til Tuesday versionDavid Bowie
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  14. What A Wonderful WorldLouis Armstrong
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  15. With Or Without YouU2
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  16. HelloAdele
    4:55
  17. Don't Stop Me NowQueen
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  18. Skinny LoveBirdy
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  19. WingsBirdy
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  20. Californian SoilLondon Grammar
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"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." 

- Oscar Wilde