Learning About You And Loving Yourself

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Knowing who you are is essential, but admit it, like many of us, you probably spend more time observing others than yourself. It's always easier to focus on the negatives, but the truth is these opinions prevent us from moving forward. The more you get to know yourself, the more satisfied you’ll be with who you really are.

Learning About You And Loving Yourself

Self-knowledge and self-esteem are tightly linked. You've obviously already drawn some conclusions about yourself: "I'm like that, I can't help it", "I'm terrible", "people don't like me" or "I annoy my friends", but these opinions do nothing but severely undermine your self-esteem.

Taking the time to discover yourself and being kind to yourself will help you make peace with who you are deep down inside. Once you have identified what you like, what you don't like or what is good or bad for you, things will be so much easier.

'We must fall in love with ourselves. I don’t like myself. I’m crazy about myself.'

 - Mae West

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Everything You Need To Know About Being An Introvert

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Why Am I An Attention Seeker? - I Want All Eyes On Me!

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Why Do I Always Make The Wrong Decisions?

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Why Do I Need To Please At All Costs?

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I Can’t Stand Constraints

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The Importance Of Questioning Yourself

I doubt myself a lot, questioning myself should be my strong point, but it’s not. Sometimes I can decentralize myself, even though there are still many areas where I question myself. For example, in conflicts, I don’t think that I act in the right way. Why is questioning yourself important? Can it really help us 🤔? All will be explained.

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Limiting Beliefs

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Cute Aggression

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But Why Do I Blush?

A mundane, everyday situation. I arrive at my gym. The coach is in the middle of a conversation with a young man I don’t know. She takes the time to say hello to me (of course) and compliment me on my new haircut (nice) and the young man adds: “Indeed, nice haircut.” And then my face goes bright red and I slip away, embarrassed. To think that I didn’t have a mask to hide myself!

Superego

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What Is Introspection?

I always thought I was in tune with myself and that I knew myself really well! That’s what I said to myself a few years ago before spending several weeks looking introspectively at my inner self. I realized that I wasn’t actually listening to my thoughts! From that point onwards, my journey of self-analysis hasn’t finished, and is still very much ongoing. There are benefits of introspection, so I will explain what it’s all about and above all give you tips to self-analyze successfully.

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Wengood's favorite tunes 🎵

Wengood's playlist

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  1. Only LoveBen Howard
    4:08
  2. Invalid date
  3. Fix YouColdplay
    4:55
  4. Beautiful DayU2
    4:08
  5. Thinking out LoudEd Sheeran
    4:41
  6. White FlagDido
    4:00
  7. Lay Me DownSam Smith
    4:13
  8. Nine Million BicyclesKatie Melua
    3:17
  9. Put Your Records OnCorinne Bailey Rae
    3:35
  10. Summertime SadnessLana Del Rey
    4:24
  11. Imagine - Remastered 2010John Lennon
    3:07
  12. Shake It OutFlorence + The Machine
    4:37
  13. Space Oddity - Love You Til Tuesday versionDavid Bowie
    3:46
  14. What A Wonderful WorldLouis Armstrong
    2:17
  15. With Or Without YouU2
    4:56
  16. HelloAdele
    4:55
  17. Don't Stop Me NowQueen
    3:29
  18. Skinny LoveBirdy
    3:21
  19. WingsBirdy
    4:12
  20. Californian SoilLondon Grammar
    3:41

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"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." 

- Oscar Wilde