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Now, covert narcissists are slippery characters and like to believe that their superior intelligence sets them one step ahead of the others. Although, donāt let this scare you, because, with a little analysis, itās possible to pick up on their traits, no matter how well they believe they dissimulate them. Even though they might not seem overly arrogant, their grandiosity transpires in a more backdoor manner, for example, theyāll attempt to discredit peopleās achievements or claim that thing certain things are beneath them. Plus, they wonāt hesitate to play the victim and will always claim that everyone is against them and out to get them. The fact they manage to hide their true intentions makes them even more menacing and threateningā¦
Why are covert narcissists so dangerous?
Here are 10 reasons why these folks terrify me, and why they should put you on edge too.
1) They are difficult to spot
Just like any ill-intentioned people, when the spotlight isnāt on them, they wreak havoc and really go to town. With them switching on the victim persona and being able to turn on the waterworks on cue, these folks really do believe they can blend in and get people to feel sorry for them. Plus, for them, the idea of being unsuspected validates their intelligence, which gives them a huge boost of adrenaline.
2) They take deviousness to the next level
Compared to typical textbook narcissists, the coverts are even scarier because they have even less empathy, feel more entitled, and are even more passive-aggressive. Coverts make the typical narcs look harmless, which does truly take some doing. The truth is they are capable of absolutely anything, plus they have no regard for anyoneās mental health, making them a completely toxic combination of pent-up insidiousness.
3) Their goal is to get you hooked
From love bombing to intense flattery on social media, a covertās mission is to get you to fall under their spell. Having control over people is what they desire most, and also gives them confirmation that they are powerful and important. In actual fact, they donāt even consider those they sink their teeth into as people, instead, they see them as their little minions.
4) They move at lightning speed
Thereās no hanging around where these folks are concerned. When they have a goal in mind, they lay the groundwork necessary to achieve it in no time. Although this may sound like a quality, in reality, they never actually use their work ethic to do anything constructive or good, no, these guys only believe in destroying and breaking things downā¦
5) They sap your energy
Their constant whining about their lives and how they are always picked on are carefully created narratives used to pull the wool over their victimās eyes. If a covert narcissist can get someone to feel sorry for them by playing the poor me act, then theyāll seem utterly inoffensive and be free to do whatever they please.
6) They are vindictive
By persistently playing the downtrodden victim, certain coverts eventually start to believe their own lies and therefore want revenge on people they deem to be dismissive towards them. When they have a grudge against someone, the level of danger they pose flies off the chart.
7) Gaslighting and manipulation thrill them
Whilst most people get their dose of serotonin from food, sex, or even sport, these guys get their kicks from toying with their victims.
8) They fail to recognize their wrongdoings and donāt care about them either
If there was ever a lack of empathy contest, then Iād happily place a huge bet on these skilled manipulators coming in the first place.
9) They use your weaknesses against you
Like any self-respecting manipulator and gaslighter, these folks know exactly how to analyze people in a flash, and are therefore able to spot even the slightest weakness within them.
10) They are true chameleons
Above all, what makes covert narcissists so dangerous is their ability to manipulate the narrative surrounding them. Their acting skills are so fine-tuned that they fool people into a false sense of security by making them believe they ought to feel sorry for them. In the blink of an eye, they can slide into the role of anything necessary to win them sympathy credentials.
Are covert narcissists violent?
As a rule of thumb, whilst covert narcissists arenāt typically physically violent, they act in passive-aggressive and manipulative ways. Now, they probably wonāt ever lose their minds and openly hit out at their victims, but they will torture them emotionally and mentally. These folks operate in underground ways in order to go undetected theyāll never inflict physical harm on anyone, to avoid leaving marks that could incriminate them. However, they take pleasure in destroying peopleās mental health and get their kicks out of gaslighting and denigrating their targets. Their emotional insensitivity is just as painful as being physically attacked, and unfortunately, their victimās mental scars never fade away.
Editorās note - Never drop your guardNarcissistic personalities are extremely dangerous and toxic for our mental health, which means they should never be underestimated. If any of the points above have set alarm bells off in your head with regard to someone in your friendship group or family, it could be time to cut ties with them. In any case, your gut feeling on someone will rarely ever lead you astray. š¤ Understand yourself, accept yourself, be happy... Letās do it here and now! #BornToBeMe |
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