These Are The 10 Most Common Reasons People Divorce

Love is only said to last 3 years, which probably explains why only 50% of marriages get past the 9-year mark. Learning this made me instantly realize that I needed to start making more of an effort with my partner if I don’t want to part of this sad statistic. Relationships are tough, what with the daily grind, the invasive in-laws and the temptation to go looking for affection elsewhere. Without further ado, discover the 10 most common reasons for divorce.

Financing my very expensive wedding gave me the electric shock I needed to realize that I wanted my marriage to be a forever thing. Eternal love is hard to find, but remembering that relationships are a two-way thing is essential in getting us through. No one enters into a marriage thinking it’ll end in divorce, but sometime fate seems to decide otherwise! Readers, check out the 10 most common reasons people divorce and get ready to fight against them, pitchforks and all!

The 10 most common reasons for divorce

1) Infidelity bug

Going down the infidelity route is a surefire way to put an end to your marriage. Whether it was simply a one-night stand or a long running passionate affair, infidelity is one of, if not the biggest marriage killer. Nowadays, infidelity is the most common reason cited for divorce and separation. Forgiveness is a beautiful thing, but it doesn’t reimburse the money spent on therapy!


Did you know?

Adultery is the cause of 33% of divorces. That means we can expect to see chastity belts on sale pretty soon!


2) Abusive behavior

The second most common reason for divorce is abusive behavior, including excessive jealousy, possessiveness and both verbal and physical violence. Being in a toxic relationship with an abusive partner is completely unhealthy and will only ever end badly. (Sorry for those of you praying for your toxic partner to change!)

Check out; How to recognize you're in a toxic relationship

3) Lack of attention

I’m not saying that us girls need a flowers and chocolates every night, but we need a minimum of affection in our life! When the excitement and butterflies disappear, relationships can become stale and hard going. When you feel like you and your man are more like roommates than lovers, red lights should start going off in your head!

Every woman wants to be made to feel like a queen, not an inanimate object. If you want your relationship to last, you need to work on keeping the passion alive!Divorce causes

4) Boredom zzzz

Living with the same person 24/7 can be challenging and in some cases can even lead you to tearing your hair out with boredom. To avoid falling into black hole of complete tediousness, both partners need to make an effort to spice things up a little! Evidently having a partner that doesn’t make you feel special is just another excuse to go looking for attention elsewhere.


⚠️ Warning! ⚠️

Having a routine can be a positive thing for a couple. I’m definitely not against a weekly date night for example, but there needs to be some element of spontaneity in a relationship.


5) Sex; mmm what’s that?

Sex is one of the fundamental bases for any successful relationship, yet as the years fly by and the flame dwindles, what’s the solution?! Let’s be honest, we’ve all used the excuse of having a headache at least once, but if you use it on a regular basis, there’s a problem.

Sex coupled with good communication is the best remedy for any long-lasting relationship and is essential in avoiding divorce.


The numbers speak for themselves

30% of people in couples admit that they aren't satisfied between the sheets!


6) Different plans for the future

‘Where do you see yourself in 5 years’ time?’

‘Travelling the world. You?’

‘At home looking after the kids.’

‘Ah…’

From kids, pets and even your professional ambitions, it’s hard being on the same page as your partner when it comes to planning for the future. The sad truth is, when we don’t have common goals, not much will come of the relationship. 15% of couples divorce for this exact reason!

Opposites are said to attract but can this theory really be applied to a real relationship; I have my doubts and I’m surely not alone. The harsh truth is we need some things in common to be able to move forward. If you have different routines for example, not seeing each other regularly could eventually push you apart.

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7) Age or maturity difference

At the start of a relationship, an age difference may seem exciting and thrilling, but things could change very quickly! As relationships develop, especially those with an age difference a huge variance in maturity can appear. Whether you are with an older or younger guy, having to accept that aren’t at the same stage in life could be a possibility.

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8) Money, money, money

Money can’t buy you happiness or a healthy relationship, however it can facilitate things if you are on the same wavelength as your partner. Having totally opposite attitudes with regards to managing your finances is a recipe for disaster in my book! Everyone likes to splash out every once in a while, however when one partner wants to save up and the other doesn’t, you can expect drama!

10) Annoying in-laws

Let’s set the record straight, we all have seriously annoying in-laws who love to become overly involved in our lives. From the in-laws that turn up out of the blue expecting you to entertain them to those that love giving out advice. Having to force yourself to be polite and friendly with your in-laws is a task, especially when your partner can’t seem to understand your pain. Do I even need to bring up the partners who constantly defend their moms and never take your side?!

Now you’re up to date with the 10 most common reasons for divorce, I’m crossing my fingers for you and hope you manage to address your issues.

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