When we talk about ejaculation, let’s not deny that we almost always think of sperm and who it belongs to. It has to be said that the fountain woman still isn’t discussed enough. Because of the taboo? Perhaps. Out of jealousy? Why not? Ignorance? Not for much longer in any case... Far from being a fantasy, and especially far from being pornographic, the phenomenon of the fountain woman is still, and above all, a good opportunity to focus on our bodies, to let go and take lots (and lots) of pleasure.
Until very recently, there were very few studies on the phenomenon of the female fountain. In fact, the first studies about female pleasure date back to the 1970s. As a result, the field remains largely unknown, leading to taboos, clichés, shame, and sometimes even disgust.
📌 Squirting occurs during sexual intercourse, when a woman powerfully squirts a large quantity of liquid, sometimes up to 300 ml. |
It’s not fountain women on one side and the rest on the other. Those who are and those who aren’t. We can all experience this sensation one day, whatever the shape of our vulva, we just need to... master the system!
Well, master, not really... Indeed, for many women, the fountain arrives by surprise the first time. It’s an accident. An accident that might happen again, but not necessarily. There’s nothing permanent about squirting. You can be a fountain for only a short time or very occasionally. It’s not systematic either, it can be held back or even triggered, and it doesn't always happen at the moment of orgasm. In fact, there’s no particular profile for a “squirter”, but those who’ve experienced it talk about confidence and really letting go.
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I mentioned “ejaculation” in my introduction, but you should know that squirting isn’t the same as ejaculating. In fact, it’s neither the same liquid nor the same origin 🧐.
🩺 A little anatomy lesson: as with men, female ejaculation exists. This involves the release of around 1 ml of prostatic fluid, which most often goes unnoticed in the middle of the cyprin (more commonly known as, the wetness).
Indeed, while a man’s prostate weighs around 30g, women have the equivalent of a prostate, the Skene glands, which are very small. The liquid that escapes during squirting gushes out of the urethra and is said to be a by-product of urine with virtually no urea content, so it has no odor or color.
Well, taboos aren’t really my thing, especially when it comes to sexuality. Gone is the idea of penetrating, gushing men and penetrated, inner women. If it happens by chance, it’s nothing to be ashamed of. If our body is capable of having an orgasm so strong that it squirts, who wouldn’t want to be a part of it? Getting to know ourselves even better and finding new sources of pleasure is always a good thing, so let’s not be afraid of our bodies’ exceptional capacities.
Nevertheless, some men, fed up with porn, try to provoke squirting in their partners without their consent. In fact, squirting can be triggered by a game of fingering. Any woman can be a squirter, as long as she wants to be!
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If it’s something that tempts you, apart from any sexual performance, you can try to be a fountain woman for YOUR own pleasure. It takes a bit of patience and skill to hope for a spurt. So take advantage of a female masturbation session on your own to experiment solo, and then see if you feel up to doing it as a duo:
Now you know everything! Once again, nothing’s compulsory, just do it for your pleasure and don’t be ashamed!
Editor’s note: Where there’s embarrassment, there’s no pleasure!We hope we’ve demystified the mystery of the fountain woman and the fantasies that go with it! If there’s just one thing to take away from all this, it’s that each woman has her own body and her pleasures, and that the key is to let yourself go, free yourself and be in complete harmony with your whole being. Sexuality isn’t a taboo subject. In psychology, it’s often said that anything left unsaid leaves an imprint; the same is true in this area. If you don’t feel at ease, if you feel that something’s not right, don’t wait to contact a sexologist. 🤗 Understanding yourself, accepting yourself, being happy... It’s here and now! #BornToBeMe |
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