10 Secrets To A Successful And Happy Relationship

Stories of couples who spend their whole lives together seem like distant fairy tales nowadays. With the rise of dating apps and a shift in the idea of what constitutes a traditional relationship; the word long-term almost sounds foreign to many of us. Being in love isn't always simple, but when it works out, it's definitely worth all the hard work. Being the romantic souls that we are, we wanted to share with you the recipe for a long-lasting and harmonious relationship. After all, who doesn't want to experience what their grandparents did? Discover the best tips for a happy and healthy love story.

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What is it that keeps couples together for years and years despite the ups and downs? This is the question that everyone wants to be answered. Tenderness, open contact and communication seem like small everyday gestures, but when we add them into a romantic relationship, they work wonders! 

What can I do to ensure my relationship lasts?

1. Find time for your partner

Try to make time for just the two of you to go out. No matter what you do, make sure you share stolen moments during your periods of quality time. A regular date night might do the trick here!

>>> Read about why we fall out of love quickly 

2. Maintain strong communication

Be honest with each other. You need to be able to be open-minded and listen to your partner at all times. Even though your schedule may be busy, take the time to talk to each other every day. Being open with each other will definitely strengthen your emotional connection too and bring you closer together.

3. Don't neglect the small gestures of daily life

Go to bed at the same time to share a moment of tenderness, hold hands and kiss your partner every day. But also, say sweet things like "I love you" and "have a good day" every morning and "good night" in the evening. Also, don't forget to check up on each other during the day.

>>> Read up on love and dating during the coronavirus pandemic

4. Trust each other fully

Putting your trust in your partner is hugely important. Avoid falling into the trap of being jealous and choose to forgive things rather than be ragingly suspicious.

5. Be proud of your relationship

Displaying your shared tenderness in public is important, it provides a very pleasant feeling. Who doesn't love a bit of PDA every now and again?

6. Believe in your relationship

If everything is going well between you, there is no point in thinking of every dramatic scenario under the sun. Instead, go with the flow and don't be pessimistic. By relieving yourself of this fear that something bad is going to happen, your heart will be much lighter, and you will be filled with happiness and serenity.

>>> Discover our selection of the 15 most romantic quotes.

7. Be tolerant and patient

Emphasize the positive points and not the negative ones. Doing this will help you move forward much faster together. 

8. Enjoy yourself to the fullest

Don't hesitate to go out, travel and live unique moments with your partner. By sharing common memories, your relationship will go from strength to strength.

9. Be a unique couple

All couples have their own set of characters and their own story. Therefore, you need to write yours without comparing yourself to others. It's this uniqueness that makes a relationship beautiful.

10. Be your true self

Don't change for your partner, and choose to be yourself. Take care of yourself and remember to show them your burning desire on a daily basis. Although there is no one recipe for a successful relationship, these tips can help you build a strong union filled with love.

Editor's opinion: Working on yourself is also a good start

If you want to address issues within your union, sometimes looking in the mirror is the most productive step to take. When you become aware of your own weaknesses and look for the best in your partner, magic happens and optimism takes over. Your partner will feel much better because they will feel appreciated. Both of you will feel more motivated to change the way you do things to bring you more happiness together.

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Comments

I need your help,my relationship was good suddenly everything changed without any reason the love he has for me faded, he stopped picking ma calls because he does love me again now he has broke up with me . Without any reason he said he can't stay long in any relationship that he falls out of love easily is he normal or is anything wrong with him

Does this apply to those dating

yes, it does :)))

It's so encouraging to me😭❤️

It a encouraging tips I love it

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