The Reasons Why Hugging Make Us Feel So Good

Last updated by Katie M.

Individualism is great but deep down we all have needs and do enjoying connecting and exchanging with other people. Humans all need a little affection and comfort at some point in their lives, no matter how strong they claim to be. That's right, at certain points in our lives, we all need to feel reassured, cared for and love, and hugging does just that! The question is why is this seemingly simple gesture so important in lifting our spirits and making us feel better?

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Hugging comes naturally to most of us and we get used to appreciating this contact from childhood. Kids naturally crave hugs because they are a synonym of being supported, cared for and protected. Children have a natural tenderness which shines through yet often diminishes when they get older. 

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What are the 4 benefits of hugging? Here's why a cuddle makes us feel on top of the world

1) It boosts our oxytocin

Physical contact often causes for a frequent release of oxytocin. The oxytocin hormone surges when we are in love or when we feel happy and energetic. Children, for example, associate hugs with the sensation of feeling safe and protected. Just think of how many boo boos are soothed with a cuddle and magical kiss. That said, this simple act also helps kids build self-confidence.

2) It makes us patient

Throwing our arms around someone generally help us develop our patience by simply taking time out. They are also great when it comes to communicating our feelings when we are at a loss for words. We think they are way more personable than emojis too!

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3) It strengthens our immune system

The smile we put on whilst cuddling also release dopamine and serotonin. These hormones boost our moods and reduce our stress levels, which in turn helps avoid psychosomatic illnesses. Hugs enhance the working of the parasympathetic nervous system thanks to a network of pressure system underneath the skin, which help detect touch and communicates it to the brain.

4) It helps us reconnect

This display of affection pulls us out of solitude and encourages us to become more tactile. Viewed as an oxygen ball, they help us reconnect with ourselves, with our bodies and feelings. That being said, not all of us are at ease with the idea of physical contact and some people really are comfortable with the idea. The feeling of unease is often related to childhood and our relationships with our moms.

Friends, parents, children, lets open our arms and share in this dose of happiness.

Did you know, hugtherapy is a thing and was invented in 1986 by an American Reverend to combat depression. This concept has since given way to hug workshops all over the world.

Our editor's opinion: Embrace each other more often

Cuddling is sharing and sharing is caring! Embracing and enlacing each other really is love in the broadest sense and radiates pure human warmth. The best thing about it is that when you give that love away, you get it back. So there's not a minute to lose! Although many of us aren't very touchy feely, letting our guards down and follow our natural instincts will only make us feel BETTER! Who knew that something so simple could make us feel so much better about everything. Cuddles are definitely very powerful, which is why we should aim to throw our arms around each other as much as we can.


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