5 Techniques To Stop Your Thoughts, I Swear, It Works!

Last updated by Rosie Harlow

The other night I was in bed, I’d been lying there for a while, but I couldn’t sleep. My thoughts were too intrusive, preventing me from falling asleep. That’s when I decided to look for techniques to stop my thoughts because I found that the factory in my head is running a bit too fast. Whether it’s to fall asleep more quickly or during the day to relieve the pressure and anxiety, I’ve found these techniques to be quite effective. So I’ll share with you my 5 techniques to stop your thoughts!

5 Techniques To Stop Your Thoughts, I Swear, It Works!

1. Say aloud “What’s my next thought?” 🗨️

I didn’t just look for my techniques on the Internet, I talked to my psychologist about it, and she gave the first one to me. She simply advised me to say out loud, “what’s my next thought?”. It’s true that talking to yourself can be destabilizing, but this question really works because it causes a short circuit in your brain 🧠.

It’s a bit like pressing the reset button on your computer. Your mind resets and your thoughts stop racing. I’m not saying it’s a miracle solution for calming an anxiety attack, but sometimes it can help you take a step back.

>>> Check this article; How to introduce yourself with an impact

2. Play a game with your tongue 👅

So yes, I know it may sound like a strange title for a technique, but I can assure you that it works 🤣. Let me explain what it’s all about: our tongue has to touch neither our palate nor the bottom of our mouth. Basically, it has to “levitate”. To achieve this, you simply have to:

  • 👉 Open your mouth and just stick out your tongue a little,
  • 👉 Move your tongue back towards your throat.

Like the first technique and all the others, this will cause a sort of short-circuit in our head, and so we’ll stop thinking. What’s more, concentration is what comes into play in this technique. Concentration is the key to clearing your mind, and it’s what all meditative activities have in common, including technique 3 👀.

3. The power socket 🔌

I like this other method because I find it a bit fun. I imagine myself as a super heroine, able to generate electricity. So that you understand what I’m getting at, I’ll explain how to stop your thoughts with the “power socket”. Just don’t stick your fingers in it 😅!

No, what you need to do is place two fingers on your forehead and two fingers on the back of your neck and imagine they’re in a power socket. You need to visualize electricity passing through your head and cleaning out your thoughts. This is mental visualization and it works really well!

4. Grab the sky ☁️

I’m proud to say that I was the one who named this method, as it didn’t have a name 😌. Naturally, I chose a poetic name for it because, after all, we need to use our imaginations heavily. What does it involve? You need to stand up and raise your arms upwards, as high as possible, as if you were trying to grab the sky.

Be careful not to hurt yourself or stand on tiptoe. The aim is to stretch your body gently, focusing on the sensations of your muscles stretching. As such, we release physical tension and our mind disconnects from whatever is preoccupying it, to focus on what’s happening in the body.

👋 You may be interested in this article: 9 Things psychologically strong people have in common

5. Pat your face 👩

Again, this isn’t about getting violent, I said patting, not hitting, didn’t I 😬! Nevertheless, perhaps you’ve already heard of it, as Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), which are fairly well known for helping to combat stress and anxiety. How do you go about it? You simply need to tap the acupuncture points on your face with your fingers.

If you don’t know where they are, there are plenty in the T zone of your face. However, I’ll tell you my personal favorites. I like to tap on the top of my cheeks, just under my dark circles and above my eyebrows. The tapping helps to shake up the thinking machine and what’s more, the acupressure points are activated, which helps with relaxation.

😎 A little extra tip: If you do breathing exercises with these techniques, it’s even better to stop your thoughts!

Editor’s note - Understanding your ruminations

We hope these techniques will help you calm your mind and find some respite from intrusive thoughts. However, if despite these tips your mind is still racing and this is having a negative impact on your well-being, don’t hesitate to see a psychologist. A professional will be able to guide you towards personalized strategies to better manage your mental activity and work on the underlying causes of your ruminations. Learning to calm your mind is a path that often requires support - so dare to ask for help if you feel the need!

🤗 Understanding yourself, accepting yourself, being happy... It’s here and now!

#BornToBeMe

Be sure to check out these articles too;

Article presented by Rosie Harlow

Writing has always been a form of therapy for me. For as long as I can remember, I have always used paper as a punching bag. Get to know me, I am Rosie Harlow.

Read our latest articles here:

Female Covert Narcissists

It’s time to set the record straight, although male narcissists typically get a lot of flack, yet, female covert narcissists are just, if not even more dangerous than the guys. These women are the definition of devious and know how to wrap people around their little fingers without anyone ever really catching on to their behavior and conniving ways. 🦹‍♀️ They are a force to be reckoned with and certainly never back down from the challenge of breaking someone’s soul. Here are insights into how to identify a female covert narcissist and how to deal with one.

Do We Always Need To Have The Last Word?

Today, I’m focussing on a habit that drives me crazy: wanting to have the last word. It’s probably because I’m not very good at comebacks or self-confident enough that I’m both fascinated and annoyed by people who always want to be right. But why do they always want to have the last word? What’s behind it?

Is My Mom A Narcissist? 10 Things Narcissistic Mothers Do

Do you remember back in the day when you were a teen and constantly fought with your parents, and in particular your mom? Whether it was because you wanted to stay out past your curfew or chose to parade around in your new miniskirt, many of us have faced constant battles with our mothers. However, for those of us dealing with a narcissistic mom, the problems don’t stop when we finish puberty, no, in fact, they stick with us throughout our lives and make it impossible for us to establish a healthy relationship with the person who brought us into the world. Now, if the scenarios below seem all too familiar, then you might just have been raised by a narcissist.

Do We Have To Love Our Parents?

When we’re little, we love them unconditionally and do anything to seek their affection. Our parents are our role models, our inspiration, our protection. Then, when puberty kicks in, and we become teenagers, war sometimes breaks out. This is all very normal, but once the period of hormones and braces has passed, it’s not always a given to love your parents, and that’s okay, plus admitting it feels fantastic!

The 10 Weak Points Of A Narcissist Revealed

Each one of us has our own weaknesses that hold us back in life; be it at work or in relationships. However, on a more positive note, most of us have the will to work on them and transform them. That being said, once narcissists are brought into the picture, the idea that they want to work on their weaknesses doesn’t exactly seem feasible. For a deeper understanding of these narcissists and more insights into the workings of their minds, discover their weak spots and which pointers they struggle with on a daily basis, yet aren't willing to admit or work on 👎.

What Are The Traits Of A Narcissist?

Whether it’s your boss, your partner, or even a family member; we are all very likely to come into contact with what’s known as a narcissistic at one point or another. Now, we hear so much about them and especially about how dangerous they can be for us, so how can we be prepared to avoid falling into a destructive spiral with one? Well, the best solution to avoid plunging into precarious territory with one, is knowing how to recognize their narcissistic characteristics. Indeed, all types of narcissists exhibit common behavioral traits and attitudes, so without further ado, let’s explore them and learn to spot them.

10 Weird Things Narcissists Do Sexually - Romance Is Dead

As with many things in life, narcissists also have unhealthy relationships with sex and treat it as nothing more than a self-gratifying activity. After all, manipulation, control, and emotional abuse are their so-called trusty weapons that they hide behind in most circumstances, so why wouldn’t they call on them in the bedroom too? The bottom line is people with this personality disorder are used to getting what they want and will only ever put themselves and their pleasure first, which doesn’t bode well for a healthy sex life. 🙈 Discover the weird things narcissists do in the bedroom and what you should do if you are involved with one.

I Still Suck My Thumb As An Adult

In general, thumb sucking ends around the age of 6. I say “in general” and not “normally”, because as an adult I don’t feel weird or particularly bothered by it. When I get stressed, I allow myself to let go and return to my childhood self by sucking my thumb. Those who know about it or catch me by surprise make me realize I should be ashamed… But is this habit a big deal? What if it makes me feel better? It’s certainly no worse than lighting up a cigarette or biting your nails…

Signs A Narcissist Is Playing Mind Games With You And What To Do

People with narcissistic personality disorders love playing games because it reinforces their sense of control and validates their need to pull the strings. Now, the idea of playing games may seem fairly harmless and innocent, but the truth could be further away from the reality when these manipulative personalities are involved. 😱 Indeed, narcissists are always one step ahead of the rest of us, which makes it difficult to recognize when they are toying with people. So, to open your eyes to what they are truly capable of, discover the lengths they’ll go to, to remain on top.

Can A Narcissist Become Obsessed With Someone?

Now, narcissists are known for demonstrating a worrying lack of empathy along with deviously manipulative traits, oh, and before I forget to mention it, HUGE egos too 😈. Yes, that’s right, they love spending hours looking in the mirror and being told how fabulous they are. To put it in other words, people with this personality disorder are firmly in love with themselves, to the point of being totally obsessed with their so-called perfection, but the question is, can they put their self-admiration aside enough to become preoccupied with someone else? If, on the other hand, you're looking to get a narcissist hooked on you, you're in the right place with these tips.



Wengood's favorite tunes 🎵

Wengood's playlist

wengood

  1. Only LoveBen Howard
    4:08
  2. Invalid date
  3. Fix YouColdplay
    4:55
  4. Beautiful DayU2
    4:08
  5. Thinking out LoudEd Sheeran
    4:41
  6. White FlagDido
    4:00
  7. Lay Me DownSam Smith
    4:13
  8. Nine Million BicyclesKatie Melua
    3:17
  9. Put Your Records OnCorinne Bailey Rae
    3:35
  10. Summertime SadnessLana Del Rey
    4:24
  11. Imagine - Remastered 2010John Lennon
    3:07
  12. Shake It OutFlorence + The Machine
    4:37
  13. Space Oddity - Love You Til Tuesday versionDavid Bowie
    3:46
  14. What A Wonderful WorldLouis Armstrong
    2:17
  15. With Or Without YouU2
    4:56
  16. HelloAdele
    4:55
  17. Don't Stop Me NowQueen
    3:29
  18. Skinny LoveBirdy
    3:21
  19. WingsBirdy
    4:12
  20. Californian SoilLondon Grammar
    3:41

How to detect a narcissist

How to detect a narcissist

How to soothe an anxiety attack

How to soothe an anxiety attack