Have we all suddenly become ADHD? 🤔

Last updated by Rosie Harlow

“Ugh, it’s so trendy to claim you have ADHD these days!” This isn’t something I’ve ever thought, let alone said, because I actually live with this condition. However, it’s a comment I’ve heard from several people. It’s true that lately, ADHD has been a hot topic in the media and on social networks, especially TikTok. But why is that? It’s reached a point where it feels like everyone is being labeled with it. The truth is, though, it’s much more complicated than that. Let me explain.

Have we all suddenly become ADHD? 🤔

What is ADHD?

Before diving into the details, it’s important to clarify that ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) is not a personality trait. It is a neurodevelopmental disorder, much like autism spectrum disorders. But what does this mean in practice? 🧐 According to Dr. Moussa, ADHD typically manifests in two key ways:

  • 👉 Inattention: This can include missing details, making careless mistakes, struggling to stay focused on tasks or activities, seeming not to listen when spoken to, difficulty following instructions or completing tasks, poor organization, avoiding mentally demanding activities, frequently losing items, being easily distracted, or forgetting appointments.
  • 👉 Impulsivity: Examples include answering questions before they are fully asked, struggling to wait one’s turn, interrupting others, or making decisions without considering the consequences.

What about hyperactivity?

Contrary to popular belief, hyperactivity is not always present ⚠️. For a long time, it was the most recognized symptom, especially in children who might exhibit behaviors like running around excessively. However, in adults, this physical hyperactivity often transforms into mental hyperactivity, with a constant stream of thoughts that never seem to stop.

Is ADHD just a “trend”?

You might already be surprised to learn that hyperactivity isn’t always part of ADHD, and that it’s more accurate to simply talk about ADHD without assuming hyperactivity is involved 🤐. Over the past few years, there has been a growing movement to challenge misconceptions about mental health, which is a positive development. Media and social networks have helped raise awareness about these disorders, which is great!

However, this increased visibility also has its downsides. For instance, there are now online tests claiming to diagnose ADHD 😫. Many of these tests are designed purely to attract traffic to websites or, worse, to make money since some are paid. These tests are often created by unqualified individuals who exploit the public’s curiosity and need for understanding. This contributes to the perception that ADHD is a “trend,” especially when these tests suggest that “everyone” has ADHD 🤦‍♀️.

Is it a disorder or just our environment?

It’s crucial to take a step back and ask the right question. Instead of wondering, “Does everyone have ADHD now?” we should ask, “What makes us feel like we might have it?”

One key factor to understand is that our society overstimulates us. With screens and social media, we are constantly bombarded with distractions and demands on our attention. This can lead to attention issues for everyone 🙃. Our environment disrupts our ability to concentrate, which naturally makes many people question whether they have ADHD—a condition that’s frequently discussed in both serious and less reliable media outlets.

To determine whether someone truly has ADHD, it’s important to look at the challenges they face in their daily life: generalized anxiety, depression, addiction, sleep disorders, etc. ADHD goes far beyond issues with focus or organization; it profoundly impacts the life of someone who has it 😔.

Getting a proper ADHD diagnosis

Instead of relying on online tests, it’s far better to consult a healthcare professional. As Dr. Moussa explains, if someone has never experienced significant challenges in their life and only recently started having issues, it’s likely that the problem is environmental rather than true ADHD 📳.

👉 Personally, it was depression and anxiety that led me to seek help, and eventually, a psychiatrist diagnosed me with inattentive ADHD. This diagnosis was a relief because it gave me a name for what I was experiencing. I believe many adults who are struggling, like I was, are searching for self-understanding and solutions to better manage the difficulties that come with ADHD 😥.

In the end, the feeling that “everyone has ADHD” is a mix of various factors. However, it’s not accurate to call it a trend 🙅‍♀️. While environmental factors may sometimes be overinterpreted, it’s still a good thing that these topics are being discussed. After all, these conversations can help people who are struggling to better understand themselves and address the negative impacts in order to live happier lives.

The editorial team’s perspective: Toward better self-understanding

Wondering if you have ADHD can be the first step toward better understanding yourself. But it’s important not to face your doubts and struggles alone. Taking care of your mental health also means knowing when to ask for help. Don’t hesitate to consult a psychologist to clarify your questions and find tailored solutions. Everyone deserves to live peacefully and in harmony with themselves.

🤗 Understanding, accepting, and thriving… It starts here and now!
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